A while ago I got this amazeballs crystal choker from Itchelita Jewelry . I kept thinking : oh I’ll wear it on our next date night! But, low and behold we literally haven’t had one. Not one in moooooonths! It’s a busy season my friends and majority of our time is spent together as a family or shuffling kids back and forth to school and their extracurricular activities.
Every time I entered my closet and saw this necklace hanging in my jewelry section I would start day dreaming about outfits to wear on my non existent date. Well, this Mama got tired of waiting for a fancy date. Because, honestly to me they are overrated and make me a bit uncomfortable. The perfect date with my husband is us at home, with all the kids asleep, a bottle of wine, and a good show/movie or just a chance to chat. I’m serious. That is what I love to do most with my man. Just be us at home in our element.
But, on the rare occasion that I found myself standing in my closet wishing I loved fancy dates I would want to be wearing this fun choker.
Well do you know what? Life waits for no one.
Yep.
Life just keeps on rolling, busy as ever, and here I am doing my best to keep up.
I decided to take the bull by the horns, or the necklace by the clasp, and just go with it. Just go with where I am at in life. So, I made my everyday a little more extra by adding some sparkle. And, do you know what? It felt pretty good.
Don’t get me wrong I love a good dress or a reason to get a little fancy. But, daily I’m like : gimme all the denim and cotton and I’m good. At this stage in my life I like no effort fashion. The type of items I can throw on and run out the door after my babes.
Easy breezy lemon squeezy with a fancy choker on top.
Amazing how accessories have the ability to up my no effort outfit game.
Jeans, a tee, and a bit of sparkle?!
Yes to the please!


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